In a world where cultural diversity is increasingly the norm, the correct pronunciation of names is more important than ever. Names are more than just words—they reflect who we are, and they deserve to be spoken with care and respect.
While this topic is garnering tremendous media attention, it is not written from a political perspective, but rather societal.
For over a decade, I have had the privilege of announcing the names of more than 100,000 students as they walked across the stage at the University of Houston’s commencement exercises. The University of Houston, a nationally ranked top 100 Tier One university, is recognized as one of the most multicultural environments in American higher education, and its graduates represent a vast array of cultures, languages, and traditions. In this role, I have witnessed first hand the importance of pronouncing each name accurately, a belief that has grown even stronger as public discourse around this issue has evolved.
For many families, a name is a cherished link between generations, carrying with it stories, values, and hopes. In many cultures, names are chosen with great care, often reflecting religious beliefs, ancestral heritage, or aspirations for the child’s future. When a name is mispronounced, it can feel as if these deep connections are being disregarded or diminished. This hurt is not limited to the individual—it ripples out to their entire family, who may see the mispronunciation as a sign of disrespect toward their heritage.
Leaders and public figures play a crucial role in setting the tone for how names are treated in society. When people in leadership, politicians or media personalities make light of name mispronunciations or suggest that they are unimportant, they perpetuate a culture of ignorance and disrespect. Such attitudes can have a cascading effect, influencing public perceptions and reinforcing the idea that some names—and by extension, some people—are less worthy of respect.
Conversely, when leaders take the time to learn and pronounce names correctly, they send a powerful message that every individual matters and that cultural diversity is valued. This can have a positive ripple effect, encouraging others to do the same and fostering a more inclusive and respectful society.
For immigrant families, maintaining cultural traditions, including the correct pronunciation of names, is often a way of preserving identity in a new and sometimes unfamiliar environment. Over the years, I’ve seen the pride in graduates’ eyes when their name is said correctly, affirming their identity and heritage. Conversely, I’ve also seen the disappointment when I’ve unintentionally mispronounced a name, knowing the impact it has on the individual and their family.
Names are fundamental to how communities form and maintain bonds. When names are pronounced correctly, it fosters a sense of belonging and mutual respect. In contrast, habitual mispronunciation can create feelings of alienation and marginalization, sending a message that certain cultural identities are less important or worthy of recognition. I have memories burned in my mind of the faces of graduates, surprised by the smile on their face as I took time to hear the way their name was supposed to be said. What struck me was how much the effort I put forward had as much impact on them as the accuracy of my attempt.
The correct pronunciation of names is a small yet significant act with far-reaching implications. It reflects respect for individual identity and cultural heritage and plays a crucial role in fostering inclusivity and social cohesion.
Mispronouncing a name may seem like a minor mistake, but its impact can be deeply felt by the individual, their family, and their community. In striving for a more inclusive society, it’s essential that we recognize the importance of names and make the effort to pronounce them correctly.
This seemingly small act can build bridges to carry us to the goodness our country can achieve. It is critical for us to create a more respectful and connected society where people feel valued and included.
